Turns out he has a thing for silk and lace.
Over the past two years, I've worn lingerie for my husband, Ben*, exactly one time, and it was a relatively conservative black sheer thingy with lots of padding. In other words, I'm not really a lingerie person. It's not that it doesn't appeal to me. It's just that the few times I've worn it, I've felt fake, and honestly, I feel better naked.
After that week, something between us changed. We had amazing sex and I feel so good about myself.